I used experience all that at the start when I first joined so I left it pretty dormant from some time. Then the girls in the office were amazed at a) how long I had been a member and b)how shitty and never updated my site was. To be honest, since we can't log on from work anymore (thanks Tara, no wonder they fired your cute, but inherently lazy, ass) I don't spend too much time on it except to receive abuse from said coworkers on my lack of activity.